Parents unite!  Complex as it is, it is possible to rear children into responsible, happy and well-adjusted adults.  From our end as parents, it will take patience and commitment.  However, it will also take wisdom and experience.  This is where our support system and access to those who know will play a big role.

No doubt parenting has its priceless rewards.  No treasure could equal having our own flesh and blood continue the family line and seeing facets of ourselves in sons and daughters.  We all look forward to seeing our grandchildren around us during visits and warm family gatherings.  Grandchildren (well supported and taken cared of by their parents of course) are the rewards of old age.  

It is a fact though, that being a parent is stressful and demanding.  We are faced with situations that would require Solomon’s wisdom. Unfortunately, as most of us know, we are no Solomon.  We face a thousand and one issues everyday.  

For most of us who have been in this parenting business for more than 10 years, we found out that just when we knew all the answers, they changed all the questions!  The issues differ from pregnancy to babies, from babies to toddlers, from toddlers to pre-schoolers.  These go on and on until our precious children reach adulthood and have families of their own.  

This might sound scary to first timers. However, we must remember that for every stressful situation, they are magical moments and lots of them.  We just have to learn to appreciate them when they come and not be bogged down with the challenges of the day.  Children, trying as they are most of the time, are a great source of joy.

When these situations and issues come though, don’t we just wish that there is someone who could give us advice?  We seek out that special parent who has gone through the same ordeal we are now in yet came out triumphant.  How we wish we had a support group to discuss certain “case studies” so much like our own and find a list of solutions and alternatives.  Then we could go back to our parenting with renewed confidence and hope instead of feeling hopeless and distraught.  

Being parents, being good parents is challenging.  No, it’s not just challenging.  It’s tough!  It is more than just providing for the material needs of our children.  We’d like to be there for them, raise them to be winners or at least equip them with what they need to make a go at life.  

On top of being parents, we are also faced with the challenges of our own careers, our relationships and our dreams.  We have inner conflicts that we have to deal with.  We have seemingly mundane tasks that are a necessary part of life.  Don’t we just wish we could find out how other parents cope?  Just maybe, they have strategies to share with us or us with them.  We all have our unique experiences that when shared could enrich each other.

It’s really all about sharing what we know, what we have gone through, what works and what may not work.  It’s all about us and our children.  It’s all about being parents and what we could do to make each other better parents.  Parenting is actually one long roller coaster ride for a lot of us.  We could either be alone and agonize all through out the ride or with the help of others, enjoy it to the fullest.